As I was reading over the comment moderation from yesterday, I came across a comment from a fellow blogger who lives in NYC. I was sort of taken back by her comments; "...Please consider your words. Prayerfully. Because they can cause intense anxiety for one who is not strong in the Lord, and I say this as a sister in Christ." A fellow employee I work with last night was wondering how folks can be so blind...blind to everything all the evil that is around us. Wow blew my mind. I honestly thought he really wasn't paying attention. He will also be one of us who will be losing his job soon. Scary times we live in.
Monday, January 31, 2022
Never to Lost...
Sunday, January 30, 2022
Sunday Salon
Apologies, work has been keeping me busy. Probably for not much longer, I refuse to 1. Acknowledge my vaxx status and 2. I refuse to be tested. All this gets mandated next week.
Wednesday, January 26, 2022
Wednesday Hodgepodge
Joining in with the Hodgepodge.
1. January 25th is National Opposites Day. They say opposites attract...do you agree, and if so is that a good thing?
Of course, I think it's a good thing. My husband is the outgoing one, I prefer to be the wallflower.
Or do you subscribe more to a 'birds of a feather' philosophy?
Nope. Can you imagine how boring Life would be if we all agreed? BORINGGGGGGGGGGG
2. Something you're glad to have behind you? Something you're glad is ahead of you?
I'm not quite sure how to answer this one. We are still mourning...however, we are moving along pretty well considering. All on God's timing, EVERYTHING and I do mean that sincerely.
3. Your favorite hot food?
I like comfort food such as meatloaf, mashed potatoes and gravy with corn. I also like Cream of Wheat and or Oatmeal.
Cold food?
I like a good sandwich or a nice bowl of cereal.
Are you a fan of breakfast for dinner?
Yep...sure are
4. Are you someone who always arrives to appointments/events early or do you tend to run late? Last thing you were late for?
Early, always. I'm never late.
5. "What good is the warmth of summer without the cold of winter to give it sweetness?" John Steinbeck....Your thoughts?
6. Insert your own random thought here.
So, been busy filling out resumes and applications. One of those is for the city to which I grew up in... haven't been back home in like truly 30 years and yet, here I am, they/the city government job want to go forward with my application, and I have to take a series of online tests. Something told me to be brutely honest when applying...and I was...and hubby told me not sell myself short. So, I didn't. So, we shall see if anything comes of this. Facing the past is the only way to move forward, right? So, I think the good Lord smacked me along the way " BUCK UP GIRLY!" Yeah...maybe not those exact words...but you get my meaning. When we left all those years ago, I just never thought we would return...kind of feels like our tails are tucked in.
Tuesday, January 25, 2022
Tuesday 4
Welcome friends! Good to see you back for another Tuesday 4 where we keep Toni Taddeo's weekly blog post alive.
2. Does the radio play in your car and if so what station or kind of music plays?
It's on the classic rock station (of course, lol)
Does music play in your home often?
Use too...it's been sort of quiet around here since Liam passed away. Then again, my record player is packed up. That kid sure loved music of all kinds.
3. What do you think of the music played in restaurants or stores? Do you find it relaxing or annoying?
Where I work, they play music from the 70's all the way to the present. It does get annoying.
4. What part has music played in your life?
Well, my parents never censored any genre of music, and nor did we. I grew up with a keen sense of sound; probably because I am partially death. My son, he loved music of all kinds. Except rap, he really didn't like it, although he would rap to just drive us nuts, grin. What I would give to hear his voice again...well, I can't say we haven't. My husband was packing up his room and he found the rocket they had built. Built inside that rocket was some sort of recorder and the kid taped his voice he was like 6 or so and he was counting down to liftoff. Oh, so sweet...and many tears. I can't believe it has survived all these years, I quickly recorded it to my Tablet.
What kind of music played at your wedding or at parties you have been to?
All kinds of genre from country, rock to disco.
Monday, January 24, 2022
Today...
Good morning from a frigid north. My husband has been very busy packing up the house while I am at work.
Sunday, January 23, 2022
Sunday Salon
Thank you all for the kind comments---the previous post is 'just a keeping it real'. I have fallen behind yet again in answering comments and emails...yesterday was a long day at work, today is only a 4-hr. day, thankfully.
Friday, January 21, 2022
It's all Theatre...
I should get an Academy Award...as it's all been theatre...I am talking about grief and if I were to be perfectly honest, no, I am not ok-at times.
Wednesday, January 19, 2022
Hodgepodging...
Hodgepodging through...thank you all for the kind comments yesterday. We were so busy I didn't have time to answer each one.
1. It's National Popcorn Day-my favorite! Are you a fan? Sweet or salty?
I like both. It just depends
A good or great movie you've seen recently (at home or in a theater, either one)?
I haven't watched any movies either at home or in a theater. However, I have been enjoying the New Magnolia Channel.
2. What's something you didn't realize was going to take so much of your time as an adult?
Work/having a job? (Being sarcastic)
3. Your favorite yellow something?
Can you believe I own nothing yellow? I simply can't wear the color or even have it in my home...but I would say
That is the million-dollar question, isn't it? Why I write? I don't know.
5. Share a favorite memory associated with snow.
I'm too lazy to go through my files for the photo, but the time I went skiing in Vermont. Awesome.
6. Insert your own random thought here.
How about some random thoughts?
Well, that makes a total of 9 big pieces of furniture out the door/sold. Yesterday I sold one of my china cabinets (I have 2 since we only have 4 kitchen cabinets-I was using it as a pantry) and porcelain kitchen table. Ok, husband, what's next? grin. He said, "Your one selling machine in 48 hours you have sold 9 items!" Nah... we're not making a killing, but the money does add up. It's nothing compared to the fact he sold his motorcycle and our sons' car.
We were so busy yesterday...one of the places we stopped at (my mil NEEDED a recliner and demanded a certain color, nope, she got what was available) yesterday was a small local furniture store. The owner's daughter is a very nice person and sort of knew our son. Very thoughtful and kind comments and sincere condolences about our son. ANYWAYS, no mask required, they are done with the mandates. What is coming down the pike in that regards, (required vaxx mandates to shop etc. here in this small town) is a very real thing.
BTW, it takes 6-9 months to get a new piece of furniture here. The supply chain issues are real. As is empty shelves. OH, and forget it, you won't be getting anything colorful either. All there is brown and dark colors for Funiture. Yep. Living in very dark times, my friends.
--as for that above, my husband is looking by the end of Feb. to be outta' here. We prob. will have to rent for a while as we have heard nothing on the mortgage application etc. Like I told him, "ITS GOING TO BE OK."
Tuesday, January 18, 2022
Tuesday Meme
Joining in with the Tuesday Meme.
Where would you go? Where do you want to go?
1. Is the farm for you? How about a ranch, a village or a city? Which is your choice and why?
Well, we are heading to Palm Coast, FL. Inland about 6 miles from the Atlantic Ocean. I told our son when he was still alive you know where to find me in my old age, by the beach. And when he passed away last month, my husband said, "Linda, we need to move and it's time for you to go home." It just wasn't because of our son's death, no...it's a combination of things. We were looking to escape NY beforehand. Now, we are going to make that thought of coastal living a possibility. I would prefer a small farm, but nope, I believe we are embracing coastal living.
2. A short auto trip for the weekend with friends or a long vacation? Where would you go?
Why can't I do both? And since we are going to embrace coastal living, how about a long vacation" Although, I will be working and not retiring yet.
3. The quiet life at home with a cuppa and TV or a good book or a night out with friends? Which sounds good today?
A nice cuppa with a good book and tv. There is so much snow outside, however, we do have to dig out the car and get going today-we have things to do.
4. You have a choice of dinner and a movie or a game of cards and snacks at the neighbors. Where are you going tonight?
Dinner and a movie sound nice. Our neighbors aren't very neighborly. Folks are avoiding us like the plague. I get it---they don't know what to say in regard to seeing our son being carried out in a body bag---well--hate to say it like that-but that is what we are told. Hence, why I have no regrets really about, selling/purging, moving. I have had enough of the so-called Christians who decided to gossip behind our backs--oh yeah--we have heard the rumors and it has hurt us to the core.
| Beautiful Palm Coast, FL |
Monday, January 17, 2022
This and That...
Good morning from a very frigid north. We woke up to this
Sunday, January 16, 2022
Sunday Salon
Oops...sorry about that...been working these past 5 days and forgot to post.
Wednesday, January 12, 2022
...and so it begins
...and so, it begins...I NEVER check the job news on my days off. It was probably for the best anyway. Yesterday there was a memo posted online that all of us have to turn in vaccination status by the end of January and be vaccinated by Feb. 9 and that they would not honor any court decision and instead will honor the current mandate set forth by NYC and the governor. WOW. Knew it was coming, but to see it in writing...wow. There are NO OPT out options.
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
Tuesday Mystery Meme
Apologies for not commenting on your comments yesterday. We were out and about, and it was not a good day emotionally. Grief happens that way, or as my good friend Barbara pointed out "triggers". Indeed, we had a big trigger yesterday. AND ITS OK.
Welcome to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4 where we try to give you topics to discuss each week. Hopefully it helps with your blogging, gives a bit of fun and helps you meet new friends.
This week we are talking about true crime and mystery. I think this week's question might need some thinking cap time!
1. Was there a notorious crime in the news that caught your attention or interest? Did you follow that case to its conclusion? If there was no solution, do you pay attention to news about the case long after? (For instance, the Lindbergh kidnapping case... Patty Hearst, etc., )
The Ted Bundy case all those years ago. I was a girl growing up in central Florida. And here was a sociopath on the run. My dad had many talks about being aware of your surroundings etc.
2.Does the mystery genre of literature and movies interest you? Does anyone book, series or movie stand out for you?
I really love Agatha Christie books. I also have been reading the cozy mysteries and I am on book 2 of the Vickie Delany Tea by the Sea series.
3. Ever play Clue or any one of the new mystery games available? Do you enjoy solving mysteries or puzzles?
Yes, and yes...it's been a long time since we have played.
4. Some towns are known for mysteries that took place there. Do you have something like that in your town or state? If not... how about telling us about something that has always puzzled you!
No mysteries here in our town. I will say many of the homes here are old and still have soot in their basements from when the trains use to run through here. Not anymore (the trains). Hornell has been dead for years. Maybe that subject is a mystery to me...how can mayors and such allow a town to die? One thing, if we have to have medical needs above a band aid, you have to drive to Rochester or Buffalo and that's 80 miles either or. That is a huge financial burden. Same with shopping etc. We used to think that was cool--now, not so much. The former governor Cuomo calls us 'cow people'. We have dairy farms out here.
Monday, January 10, 2022
Sunday Stealing on a Monday
I am off today and tomorrow. Hubby has gone to get propane and to the bank. Propane is for the enclosed/covered back porch; it is currently 16* and real feel is 7. We have a fridge out there, I told him to unplug its cold enough to keep the items cold. But...nope...anyways...he is deeply troubled by some things that are going on with his mother...see below.
2. What was the best thing about your youth?
3. Who is the most interesting person you’ve ever met.
4. What is the least you’ve ever worn in public?
5. What was the worst vacation you ever took?
6. What room in your home do you spend the most time?
7. Who made the strongest first impression on you?
8. What was the most surprising action you’ve ever taken.
9. When was your life most out of control?
10. What would you be best at, were you to change careers?
11. What is the cruelest thing a person has ever said to you?
12. What is the best thing you ever won as a prize?
13. What is your strongest argument against capital punishment?
14. What have you been most ignorant about in life?
15.Where would you most hate to be pierced?
Sunday, January 9, 2022
Sunday Salon
An early start here.
| older photo from fall |